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The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Coaching Men: A Direct Approach to Intimacy and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety: The Ultimate Guide
Sexual performance anxiety is way more common than most guys think. Like… way more. If you have ever lain awake at night thinking: Why does sex go downhill the moment I start thinking? Why do I feel confident in every area of my life… except in bed? Is this ever...
From Pleasing to Feeling: Why Most Men Miss Their Own Pleasure
For a long time, I focused almost entirely on pleasing women. I learned techniques. I learned how to last. I paid attention to what worked. And in many ways, my strategies did work. But something was still off. I wasn’t really feeling much myself. My attention was...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
How to see women for who they are
Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...
Ladies: How to Talk to Your Man About Sex (And get better sex out of the conversation!)
The Gap If you’re a woman who has sex with men, you’ve probably felt The Gap — the gap between what you want in bed and what actually happens; the gap in understanding when it comes to talking about sexual needs and desires; the gap in intimacy created by your own...
Relationship Flatline (And the Incest Taboo)
If you live with a woman, have you ever wondered if there’s some mysterious force that is actively de-sexualizing your love life? A force that’s so strong and unconscious, it’s almost as if you’re powerless to keep it from happening? I hear about this all the time...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Coaching Men: A Direct Approach to Intimacy and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
How to see women for who they are
Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...
Ladies: How to Talk to Your Man About Sex (And get better sex out of the conversation!)
The Gap If you’re a woman who has sex with men, you’ve probably felt The Gap — the gap between what you want in bed and what actually happens; the gap in understanding when it comes to talking about sexual needs and desires; the gap in intimacy created by your own...
Relationship Flatline (And the Incest Taboo)
If you live with a woman, have you ever wondered if there’s some mysterious force that is actively de-sexualizing your love life? A force that’s so strong and unconscious, it’s almost as if you’re powerless to keep it from happening? I hear about this all the time...