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The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Coaching Men: A Direct Approach to Intimacy and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
How to see women for who they are
Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...
Ladies: How to Talk to Your Man About Sex (And get better sex out of the conversation!)
The Gap If you’re a woman who has sex with men, you’ve probably felt The Gap — the gap between what you want in bed and what actually happens; the gap in understanding when it comes to talking about sexual needs and desires; the gap in intimacy created by your own...
Relationship Flatline (And the Incest Taboo)
If you live with a woman, have you ever wondered if there’s some mysterious force that is actively de-sexualizing your love life? A force that’s so strong and unconscious, it’s almost as if you’re powerless to keep it from happening? I hear about this all the time...
The three sex styles. Which one will women say is yours?
Sex — an act as innate as eating and breathing for most animals — can be nothing short of a confusing mess to humans. During sex, it’s usually tough to track what’s going on at any given time — physically, emotionally and energetically. Everything is happening at...
It’s time for some squirrel sex!
Yep. That's right. I’m suggesting that you have sex LIKE a squirrel. Not WITH a squirrel. That's a post for another time 😉 OK, OK, I’ll explain. Yesterday I was watching two squirrels play in the redwood grove in my backyard. I know they were playing because it...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Coaching Men: A Direct Approach to Intimacy and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
How to see women for who they are
Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...
Ladies: How to Talk to Your Man About Sex (And get better sex out of the conversation!)
The Gap If you’re a woman who has sex with men, you’ve probably felt The Gap — the gap between what you want in bed and what actually happens; the gap in understanding when it comes to talking about sexual needs and desires; the gap in intimacy created by your own...
Relationship Flatline (And the Incest Taboo)
If you live with a woman, have you ever wondered if there’s some mysterious force that is actively de-sexualizing your love life? A force that’s so strong and unconscious, it’s almost as if you’re powerless to keep it from happening? I hear about this all the time...