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The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Sex and Intimacy Coaching for Men – A Direct Approach to Confidence, Connection, and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
50 Questions You’ve Always Wanted to Ask About Sex
Contents 1. General sex questions 2. Pleasure, technique and compatibility 3. Orgasm and arousal 4. Bodily discomfort and physical and mental changes 5. Relationships, trust and emotional intimacy General sex questions 1. How often do most couples have...
Why Men Shut Down Emotionally in Relationships (And What It Has to Do With Sex)
Over the years, I've lost count of the number of clients who've said something like: "I get pretty defensive when I’m arguing with my wife." “I have trouble communicating my feelings to my girlfriend.” "It’s hard for me to listen when I’m feeling overwhelmed.”...
How to Last Longer in Bed Naturally (Without Trying to Think About Baseball Stats!)
If you've ever Googled "how to last longer in bed," you've probably come across the same advice over and over again. "Just relax." "Slow down." "Think about statistics." Really? Because if you're with a beautiful woman, the last thing you want is to be wondering about...
Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety: The Ultimate Guide
Sexual performance anxiety is way more common than most guys think. Like… way more. If you have ever lain awake at night thinking: Why does sex go downhill the moment I start thinking? Why do I feel confident in every area of my life… except in bed? Is this ever...
From Pleasing to Feeling: Why Most Men Miss Their Own Pleasure
For a long time, I focused almost entirely on pleasing women. I learned techniques. I learned how to last. I paid attention to what worked. And in many ways, my strategies did work. But something was still off. I wasn’t really feeling much myself. My attention was...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
Why Men Shut Down Emotionally in Relationships (And What It Has to Do With Sex)
Over the years, I've lost count of the number of clients who've said something like: "I get pretty defensive when I’m arguing with my wife." “I have trouble communicating my feelings to my girlfriend.” "It’s hard for me to listen when I’m feeling overwhelmed.”...
Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety: The Ultimate Guide
Sexual performance anxiety is way more common than most guys think. Like… way more. If you have ever lain awake at night thinking: Why does sex go downhill the moment I start thinking? Why do I feel confident in every area of my life… except in bed? Is this ever...
Make It Great Again!
Discover the secret to experiencing more love and pleasure with your partner by embracing her quirks and accepting them as they are. Transform your relationship and deepen your connection with these two simple, yet challenging keys.
Dealing with Feeling
Emotion is like a wave you can surf. It builds, swells, curls, and then it’s finished. Learning to ride the wave takes practice and patience, but you can do it.
Pleasure Her Energy Pathways
Proper attention to the energy lines in the human body will maximize her sexual pleasure.
Become a Rocket Scientist of Pussy
Have you ever researched the pussy? I’m talking about knowing the locations of her fundamental orgasm triggers: the clitoris and the G-Spot. If you haven’t, then get thee to an internet browser and study up. This should be your top priority, because you can’t master something you don’t understand!
The Sexually Integrated Man
Ace coach for men Shana James interviewed me for one of her “Man Alive” podcasts a few years ago. That interview, along with interviews with several other industry experts, became the basis for her recent book, Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a Confident...
Sex and Intimacy Coaching for Men – A Direct Approach to Confidence, Connection, and Sexuality
I was asked to contribute a “sex and intimacy coaching” chapter for the book Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men: Insights and Innovations This book is a brilliant compilation of out-of-the-box strategies to use in coaching or counseling men. If you work with men...
How to see women for who they are
Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...