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Your Guide to the Masculine Tar Pits
Guys! Are you getting annoyed at the beautiful, loving babes who are throwing themselves at you? Need to find a way to distance yourself from that amazing woman in your life? I’m here to help. After years of research and painstaking personal experience, I’ve...
Want to get her “in the mood?” Then SET the mood.
If your woman has ever said the words, “I’m not in the mood,” maybe it’s because you haven’t “set the mood.” You know how I’m always saying that for women, sex is an all-day affair? That, for them, foreplay starts WAY before you think it does? I know, I know. You’ve...
Use Morning Breaths — and skip the coffee!
Here’s a way to supercharge your mornings, help you get more “present,” and even (really?) get laid more often! The practice is called “Morning Breaths.” When I was facilitating the Authentic Man Program in San Francisco, we would send guys home most evenings with a...
Two Thumbs Up for “The Sessions”
I just saw a great popular movie that’s now out on DVD (or download, or your cable box). And if you’re a guy who’s ever experienced shame around the issues of sexuality, virginity or early ejaculation, this is a must-see. It’s called The Sessions. It won or was...
How can I get her to want me more?
That's one of the most common questions I get as a sex and relationship coach. I recommend approaching the question by looking at the underlying issues. Is she anxious, agitated, insecure, and “testing” you regularly? She could need more SAFETY in the relationship. Or...
You snooze, you lose: Start talking after sex!
You know the stereotypical scenario where, after ejaculating, the man rolls over and falls asleep? If you’re saying, “Yep, that’s me,” I say to you, “Dude! Abandon your Neanderthal ways and join the rest of us guys in the 21st century.” It’s not cool to silently sack...
Turn her on with your voice
Picture a rock star on stage. Have you ever noticed how women cry, scream, and appear to have an orgasm just from watching them? That’s because women are wired to respond to genuine passion in a man’s voice. When your voice is infused with emotion, turn-on,...
Touch Her Right (Before Someone Else Does!)
When I was in college, a female friend of mine would always gush about how this one particular guy would touch her when they said hello. Honestly, I just didn’t get it at the time. (I didn’t get A LOT of things at that time!) I mostly remember feeling jealous of him....
The three fastest ways to kill your sex life
My brother taught me how chess pieces moved when I was 7 years old, and I played chess games by trial and error until I was 18. A that point, a really good player took me under his wing and spent time pointing out my bad habits: For instance, I was exposing my queen...
What’s your sex style?
Have you ever had a sexual “misfire” with a partner when it seemed like the two of you were talking different languages in bed? Maybe your eyes were closed and you were deeply feeling your physical sensations, but, dammit, your partner kept bugging you to look at her....
What does your woman really need?
Men: Have you ever experienced sex with a woman when she’s completely open to you? When she’s a full and uninhibited Yes! to you as a sexual man? If you’ve experienced wild feminine openness, you know what I’m talking about. But if you haven’t, let me tell you: It’s...
Your Guide to the Masculine Tar Pits
Guys! Are you getting annoyed at the beautiful, loving babes who are throwing themselves at you? Need to find a way to distance yourself from that amazing woman in your life? I’m here to help. After years of research and painstaking personal experience, I’ve...
Want to get her “in the mood?” Then SET the mood.
If your woman has ever said the words, “I’m not in the mood,” maybe it’s because you haven’t “set the mood.” You know how I’m always saying that for women, sex is an all-day affair? That, for them, foreplay starts WAY before you think it does? I know, I know. You’ve...
Use Morning Breaths — and skip the coffee!
Here’s a way to supercharge your mornings, help you get more “present,” and even (really?) get laid more often! The practice is called “Morning Breaths.” When I was facilitating the Authentic Man Program in San Francisco, we would send guys home most evenings with a...
Two Thumbs Up for “The Sessions”
I just saw a great popular movie that’s now out on DVD (or download, or your cable box). And if you’re a guy who’s ever experienced shame around the issues of sexuality, virginity or early ejaculation, this is a must-see. It’s called The Sessions. It won or was...
How can I get her to want me more?
That's one of the most common questions I get as a sex and relationship coach. I recommend approaching the question by looking at the underlying issues. Is she anxious, agitated, insecure, and “testing” you regularly? She could need more SAFETY in the relationship. Or...
You snooze, you lose: Start talking after sex!
You know the stereotypical scenario where, after ejaculating, the man rolls over and falls asleep? If you’re saying, “Yep, that’s me,” I say to you, “Dude! Abandon your Neanderthal ways and join the rest of us guys in the 21st century.” It’s not cool to silently sack...
Turn her on with your voice
Picture a rock star on stage. Have you ever noticed how women cry, scream, and appear to have an orgasm just from watching them? That’s because women are wired to respond to genuine passion in a man’s voice. When your voice is infused with emotion, turn-on,...