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Breaking out of your bedroom routine
When you start getting bored in bed, it’s easy to blame your partner. But more often than not, you're the one who’s gotten stuck in some pattern that you’ve outgrown, but you don’t see it. Or maybe you get a whiff of the pattern, but you’re not ready to admit it to...
The Power of the Pause
During sex, one of the most important things you can do is significantly slow down or even stop the action and consciously connect with your partner. It can make a huge difference in how connected she feels to you — and, thus, how much she’s willing to open to you....
Sex with Your Clothes On
Make yourself more desirable by becoming a good dancer. Last week, at an event I was attending, I introduced a female friend of mine to a guy I know. The three of us chatted for a few minutes, and then he excused himself. I asked her if she thought he was...
What’s your sex style?
Have you ever had a sexual “misfire” with a partner when it seemed like the two of you were talking different languages in bed? Maybe your eyes were closed and you were deeply feeling your physical sensations, but, dammit, your partner kept bugging you to look at her....
What does your woman really need?
Men: Have you ever experienced sex with a woman when she’s completely open to you? When she’s a full and uninhibited Yes! to you as a sexual man? If you’ve experienced wild feminine openness, you know what I’m talking about. But if you haven’t, let me tell you: It’s...
Your Guide to the Masculine Tar Pits
Guys! Are you getting annoyed at the beautiful, loving babes who are throwing themselves at you? Need to find a way to distance yourself from that amazing woman in your life? I’m here to help. After years of research and painstaking personal experience, I’ve...
Want to get her “in the mood?” Then SET the mood.
If your woman has ever said the words, “I’m not in the mood,” maybe it’s because you haven’t “set the mood.” You know how I’m always saying that for women, sex is an all-day affair? That, for them, foreplay starts WAY before you think it does? I know, I know. You’ve...
Use Morning Breaths — and skip the coffee!
Here’s a way to supercharge your mornings, help you get more “present,” and even (really?) get laid more often! The practice is called “Morning Breaths.” When I was facilitating the Authentic Man Program in San Francisco, we would send guys home most evenings with a...
Two Thumbs Up for “The Sessions”
I just saw a great popular movie that’s now out on DVD (or download, or your cable box). And if you’re a guy who’s ever experienced shame around the issues of sexuality, virginity or early ejaculation, this is a must-see. It’s called The Sessions. It won or was...
The Power of the Pause
During sex, one of the most important things you can do is significantly slow down or even stop the action and consciously connect with your partner. It can make a huge difference in how connected she feels to you — and, thus, how much she’s willing to open to you....
Sex with Your Clothes On
Make yourself more desirable by becoming a good dancer. Last week, at an event I was attending, I introduced a female friend of mine to a guy I know. The three of us chatted for a few minutes, and then he excused himself. I asked her if she thought he was...
What’s your sex style?
Have you ever had a sexual “misfire” with a partner when it seemed like the two of you were talking different languages in bed? Maybe your eyes were closed and you were deeply feeling your physical sensations, but, dammit, your partner kept bugging you to look at her....
What does your woman really need?
Men: Have you ever experienced sex with a woman when she’s completely open to you? When she’s a full and uninhibited Yes! to you as a sexual man? If you’ve experienced wild feminine openness, you know what I’m talking about. But if you haven’t, let me tell you: It’s...
Your Guide to the Masculine Tar Pits
Guys! Are you getting annoyed at the beautiful, loving babes who are throwing themselves at you? Need to find a way to distance yourself from that amazing woman in your life? I’m here to help. After years of research and painstaking personal experience, I’ve...
Want to get her “in the mood?” Then SET the mood.
If your woman has ever said the words, “I’m not in the mood,” maybe it’s because you haven’t “set the mood.” You know how I’m always saying that for women, sex is an all-day affair? That, for them, foreplay starts WAY before you think it does? I know, I know. You’ve...
Use Morning Breaths — and skip the coffee!
Here’s a way to supercharge your mornings, help you get more “present,” and even (really?) get laid more often! The practice is called “Morning Breaths.” When I was facilitating the Authentic Man Program in San Francisco, we would send guys home most evenings with a...
Two Thumbs Up for “The Sessions”
I just saw a great popular movie that’s now out on DVD (or download, or your cable box). And if you’re a guy who’s ever experienced shame around the issues of sexuality, virginity or early ejaculation, this is a must-see. It’s called The Sessions. It won or was...
How can I get her to want me more?
That's one of the most common questions I get as a sex and relationship coach. I recommend approaching the question by looking at the underlying issues. Is she anxious, agitated, insecure, and “testing” you regularly? She could need more SAFETY in the relationship. Or...